Is Your Lover's Weight Gain a Good Excuse for an Affair?

It might not be a proper reason for an affair as you are extreme weight, but it could be a reasonable rationale for a divorce. It relies on whether one wants to be married to one's best friend, or one's lover. I choose to be married to my lover. Needless to say, the killer is while one has three or four little children, and then your partner's appearance goes to hell in a hand-basket and the last thing you feel like doing is touch them, and the only thing you need to do less is divorce and mess things up for your child.

A lot of guys have told me over the time that they are no more attracted to their wives as their wives have obtained a considerable amount of weight. They wonder out loud if this can be a right reason for an affair. In the end, they say, they themselves have kept their part of the bargain by staying in shape, but their wives have not. They have expressed big frustration over the truth that their only lover has "let herself go".

Now it certainly is the case that both men and women in the U.S. tend to gain weight after they get married. However, data from the National Health and Nutrition Examination Epidemiologic Follow-up Survey of men and women in the U.S. showed that the occurrence of a major weight gain was twice as great among women (5.3%) than among men (2.3%) over a 10-year period. A major weight gain was defined as an increase of five or more body mass index units.

Women are likely to keep their bodies in better shape with less conscientious. And men just care more on how their wives look. In fact, study has demonstrated that all over the world, men put an even greater premium on their wife's beauty than women put on their husband's beauty.

I'm not going to lie I would feel like its not fair if I am working out to seem good for her but am not getting the same in return. Though I don't believe I would consider a matter rather and I would not straight up just tell her that she is getting less beautiful, rather I'm unsure if this might work but go on workout dates. I mean going on jogs or any kind of workout or even both sharing a healthier diet together would possibly not give her a direct clue that I think she is gaining some too pounds but rather an effort to spend more time together.


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